Small, private and happy:
no-fuss elopements and registry office style weddings

Some couples prefer to have their marriage ceremony take place with only themselves, their witnesses, and a registered celebrant in attendance.

This can happen in several ways…you could go to a Registry Office, stand in a queue and then experience a ceremony that has:

  • no personalisation (everyone gets the same minimal words)
  • no opportunity to acknowledge and include witnesses and guests in the ceremony
  • little warmth, friendliness, interest or support (as you’re unlikely to have met the celebrant beforehand)
  • no rehearsal, which means you’re more likely to be nervous and unsure about what’s happening and when
  • more expense and trouble (petrol costs to get there plus premium city parking costs – if you can actually find somewhere to park!)
Or alternatively, I would be pleased to officiate a happy, friendly marriage ceremony for couples who prefer a smaller, private ceremony, but would still like it to be a meaningful occasion that acknowledges and celebrates their relationship.
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Anne and Greg married in an intimate no-fuss ceremony by Julie Dober Ballarat Civil Celebrnat
Dear  Julie

Thank you for your kind and enjoyable conduction of the ceremony of our marriage.

Your warm and welcoming manner made our celebration a relaxed and loving time for us and our four guests.

I hope you know how important your manner was to us.

Kind regards, Anne and Greg.





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No-Fuss Private Weddings and Elopements

For a reduced fee, I can provide a ceremony that:
  • both reflects and respects the reasons you have chosen a small, private ceremony
  • you’ll feel comfortable and confident about as we will have the opportunity to build a rapport and get to know each other a little
  • can be conducted in your home, in a chosen venue or in my home/office
  • you have had a choice of vows which is very important as the exchange of vows is when your marriage takes place!
  • meets all legal requirements.
There are some conditions that apply to this reduced fee:
  • the ceremony is not held at peak times such as Saturday afternoon
  • the ceremony is in or very close to Ballarat
  • the number of people present is limited to ten guests including the witnesses
Please note  there is only one meeting prior to the ceremony which includes:
  • completion of the required Notice of Intended Marriage document which I supply.  (To complete this document, I am legally required to see the original copies of your Birth Certificates if you were born in Australia or a foreign passport if you were born overseas.  If you have been previously married, then I must also see an original Certificate of Divorce or Death.  I am required to see these documents before the ceremony takes place).
  • making your choice of vows and the asking
  • a run-through of the ceremony
  • the payment of the total fee with a comprehensive invoice and receipt provided.
If you decide that a small, private, happy and legal ceremony in the venue of your choice is the style of ceremony and arrangement that you would like, please contact me to check my availability for your chosen date, and for a quote of my fees.


A lovely private elopement held at Julie Dober's rural property near BallaratChris and I wanted a small, casual, no fuss simple wedding. Julie was happy to do this for us.  We chose a Wednesday afternoon with the ceremony at Julie's home.  Julie even supplied the witnesses for us.  During our ceremony that took about 15 minutes, Julie put us at ease and afterwards, we had a few laughs and a chat with our witnesses who were a lovely couple.

Chris and I decided to get married this way because we have been together for so long and have two wonderful little boys.  We would both have felt out of place with our family and friends watching us. As Julie said "you are the ones getting m Signng the Register at Julie Dober's rural propertyarried, you have to be the ones who are happy.

If we had done what others wanted, it would have been a big wedding with things we didn't want or like, and guests we haven't seen for years. Getting married the way we did was less stressful and more enjoyable for Chris and myself. I have had a few friends come up and tell me that they would like to get married this way too, so I always recommend Julie to them.

Chris and I would like to thank Julie again for making our day just that… "our day." - Chris and Jodie


Julie Dober Ballarat Civil Celebrant
Ballarat's most experienced civil celebrant
for weddings, commitments, namings, renewal of vows, funerals in
Ballarat and surrounds including Buningyong, Daylesford, Beaufort, Dereel and Elaine
Phone: 03 5342 4113    Mobile: 0428 567 218  |  Email:  karajule {at } tpg.com.au

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